How’s your dating success? Have you been experiencing repeated failure in your dating life? I have been there myself and I know how frustrating it can be. After 3 years of dating failure I decided to try and find out where I was going wrong. The result of my search was that, at last, I found the relationship I had been searching for all my life. Read on to learn how to be successful at dating and get the loving relationship that you desire. [Read: 10 Type of Guys You Must Avoid Dating]
Tips for Successful Dating
Take Your Time
Take time to reveal your information to your new date or relationship.Many of you made a big mistake by telling your new date to be declared bankrupt or who likes to fart in the shower. That is for you. Although you want to be yourself and open about his life and honest about it – keep embarrassing and unusual information to himself until the time is right. The first impression is very powerful and should be reserved the first 10 dates only positive, interesting stories. Keep information controversial and unusual for the later stages of the new relationship.
Always closer to finding the right person, dating as if looking for a job. This means not only get everyone you know to tell them you would like to meet someone, but to consider all the possibilities available for you to meet new people. Try taking a class or volunteering for something you are really interested in – not only because I think it would be a good place to meet someone. Even if you do not meet Mr. Right in that Tuscan cooking class, could be sharing a kitchen knife with her sister who has been dying to create his brother eligible. If you do things that make you happy, it shows! And happy people are magnets for friendship.
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you’re doing, don’t sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Once you know your dating market, you can see who might be interested in an exchange. Find the partners that fit with what you want. Qualify and assess them. Then see whether what you’re willing to give matches up with their wants too. Negotiate a little and see what works. Is it a good fit? Can you strike a deal? Is it a win-win? See what your options for “trading partners” look like.
Don’t let a past of bad dating experiences, [Read: Why Do Women Date Jerks], keep you from moving forward. Let go of the hurt and anger. Trust us, the guy who asks you out wants it to work out as much as you do, so just relax and make the best of it. Besides, if you don’t like each other, you never have to see one another again, and if you do like each other, remember that one date can change your life forever.
Know Your Desire
Set Your Criteria
Be realistic. Rank order the criteria in importance. Recognize that no one will fit all of your desires; however, there are some criteria that are crucial in a dating relationship, [Read: First Time Dating Tips for Men]. Here are a few to get you started. Women need to have a man who is mature, handles money well and is respectful of her at all times. One quote from Joanne Woodward that I think fits so well here is “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that’s a real treat.”